older men | Coming Out Twice

Oct 10, 201811 min read

Meeting the Beloved Again for the First Time

I was 32 years old when I met the Beloved in the flesh of a man old enough to be my father. It was December 2015 and I did know it yet,...

Oct 3, 20188 min read

Topped by Tenderness: Choosing Exclusivity in Intergenerational Love

I struggle with sobriety in love. I always have. Considering the promiscuity towards which many men in the gay community are prone as...

Sep 28, 20189 min read

'Love is Love'

I came out of the closet when I was 23 years old. I have harbored same-sex desire all of my life. It took me a long time to acknowledge...